Sunday, April 29, 2012

Rituals - 2

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 When I was 8, there was this Devi Saptaaham (week-long puja) at a local temple in our Village, Muthukur.

There was a square pit made of bricks at the center of which was some idol. And there were always 4 chaps sitting on its four sides picking up kumkum (vermilion) in pinches and delicately throwing it on the idol, taking turns by day and by night, so that by the end of the week hardly any trace of idol was seen since it was immersed in a heap of kumkum. Everyone, man or woman, was invited to participate, watch, or donate in cash or kind to a forthcoming temple maybe.

My Father and Mother used to take us there every evening. So also the parents of all my friends. We kids were hardly interested in the ritual accompanied by the repetitive mantra (Om hraim hreem shreem) and so we used to play in the precincts of the temple till our parents returned. 


On the last evening, while playing, I happened to hear what I came to know later as the Vedic hymn: 'Naraayaneeyam' (Mantra Pushpam) chanted by seven pundits standing around the magic square. On hearing the line: "Same'kaamaan kaama kaamaayamahyam..." I dropped whatever I was playing with and ran in to listen to it closely. 

It was arresting.

Since then whenever I happen to hear it, my mind's eye reverts to that evening. Later when I went to Bengal, a similar sense of awe and reverence used to overtake me whenever I happened to hear Chandipaath at the crack of the dawn on Mahaalaya via my pocket radio.

And now I realize that the bond that binds caste Hindus all over India are the vedic hymns and puja paaths recited with clockwork precision and pronunciation in that otherwise dead language, Sanskrit. It is amazing that a language spoken by none can bind such diverse species of individuals as Radhakrishnan hailing from Palghat to Shivlal Mathur from Rishikesh.

The mellifluous mantras are always accompanied by tantras (ritual worship). Whenever my Mother could catch me at her place for a month's stay, she would arrange a Rudraabhishekham. A couple of pundits would be invited to read the namakam and chamakam and Rudram while I was made to sit and keep pouring water plus some honey and curds maybe with a tusli (basil) leaf on several shiv lingas on a tray. That's all I had to do. It would last anything between 2 hours to 4 depending on the business schedule of the pundits.


I asked my Mother (practically illiterate in Sanskrit) why she keeps asking me to go through this boring ritual; Is it for kaamya (fulfillment of worldly desires) or moksha (liberation)? And she would smile and say: "Neither...it is just that I love hearing those mantras being chanted."


I would then ask why she couldn't just hear them without my sitting through the ordeal. She then said that folks who perform this abhishekham have one worldly desire or the other and don't know any Sanskrit at all. So, they would invite the pundits and feed them and pay them for reciting the mantras. But the Pundit would insist that the payer should sit and perform the abhishekham himself so that he is satisfied that it was his desires and not the Pundit's that get fulfilled.


I then recalled that during my marriage ceremony, our pundit occasionally would read a shlok and ask me to say, "mamaa". He explained that the shlok he uttered says: "Let me be your loving husband for life"...obviously the "me" there is the bridegroom and not the pundit who recites it...the bridegroom being too busy otherwise...so the utterance of "mamaa" transfers all the coupling-rights to the bridegroom.


Those days I was a chain smoker and had a deal with my pundit that whenever I showed a prearranged hand-signal, he had to pause and take a break for five minutes as if he got tired and breathless.


I was so irreverent to rituals.


But not these days...I enjoyed the rituals done by my son and D-i-L during the baptism ceremony of Ishani, her "annapraashan", "bhogipallu", and recently "aksharaabhyaasam" (Initiation into literacy).


As the Bard said: "Ripeness is all"


Y B Chavan who ended up as the Defense Minister of India past our thrashing by the Chinese in 1962 was a card-holding Communist before he turned coat and became a Congressman wearing a Gandhi cap. When a journalist tried to taunt him about his volte-face, he retorted:


"Those who are not Marxists before 40 are felons; those who remain so after 40 are fools"


Buddha-da may agree...


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Saturday, April 28, 2012

Rituals - 1

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 "...Every night we wore academic gowns for dinner. The first night it scared the life out of me, because I didn't like the formality. But I soon realized that the gowns were a great advantage. Guys who were out playing tennis could rush into their room, grab their academic gown, and put it on. They didn't have to take time off to change their clothes or take a shower. So underneath the gowns there were bare arms, T-shirts, everything. Furthermore there was a rule that you never cleaned the gown, so you could tell a first-year man from a second-year man, from a third-year man, from a pig! You never cleaned the gown and you never repaired it, so the first-year men had very nice, relatively clean gowns, but by the time you got to the third year or so, it was nothing but some kind of cardboard thing on your shoulders with tatters hanging down from it...."

..........Feynman "Joking"

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The first academic gown I saw was in the studio-photograph of my Father wearing black robes as if for a funeral, with a hood that looked very like an inverted tub, also black, with his right arm resting casually on a pedestal and his left carrying a folded parchment paper, which he said proudly was his B A Degree from Christian College, Madras. There was also a gilt-edged Holy Bible (for keeps) that I loved for its getup and its beautifully printed butter paper. I used to browse it for the sheer pleasure of handling it and flipping its pages...I was too young to follow the King James Version. My Father was a bachelor then and very handsome (he kept his lean and mean figure till his death at 80). So, it was he that added color to the black witch-robe:






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By the time my turn came, I discovered I had to rent the gown for a hefty Rs 10 for an evening, which was too much for me (@ 5 full meals at the upbeat Santi Niwas Hotel...when I first went there with two rupees in my pocket and asked at the counter, "Can I have curds too please!" the man behind the desk looked severely at me and growled: "No system here without curds").  

I had half a mind to skip the Convocation and take my Degree Certificate later in absentia to avoid all the hassle, but I was told I had to pay Rs 20 as fine for super-added clerical work and postage. Also, curiosity to have a peek at the jamboree won. It was a heck of a punishment. The crowd was too big, the function was in the open-air, it threatened to drizzle, the mikes hooted and tooted and whistled and howled, and the gown stank to heavens. And that night I skipped the default studio-photo session since there was a snaky waiting line and when I looked at my gowned self in the mirror, the sight didn't seem worth preserving for a doubtful posterity.

And then I traveled to IIT KGP and there was this Convocation there within a few months of my joining. I thought Bengal was forward-looking and dumped all the clownish symbols of slavery in the dustbin. But no! The evening before, men arrived in the Exhibition Hall carrying trunks of costumes in various colors, black in two trunks, red in one, blue in a bag and so on. I watched the first Convocation there which was held in a huge pandal by the side of the Netajee. Each and every student went up the dais and took their Degrees (after muttering a fulsome oath under their breath); and there were claps, fulsome and desultory depending on the popularity of the recipient. But there was a thunderous applause for the PGM...a sight to watch.

As years went by year after empty year and my heart pined in vain for taking my Ph D Degree wearing red robes and going up the dais...I stopped watching the agonizing annual event. It took me 12 good years to get my Ph D after my M Sc. And one day a telegram came from my Father summoning me to Madras to assist and attend to him in his ankle surgery. I thought it would be a week's leave, but it stretched to six weeks. 

And one morning when I walked up to Parry's to buy my copy of The Hindu after doing my father's bedside ablutions, there was this huge front-page photo of Indira Gandhi doling out Degrees at IIT KGP. The write-up said that since it was Emergency time, she didn't say, 'Yes' or 'No' to the Silver Jubilee Convocation Invite till the last minute...her Father doled them out in the First Convocation. 

And so it was held in a hurry and I missed my final boat...saving Rs 100 rent for the red gown...IIT KGP didn't charge any fine for latecomers.

Anyway, I always had a deep aversion to black clothes and hoods:

And wished IIT KGP would abolish this mourning attire on the happiest day of its students. It took thirty years or so for IIT KGP to realize it and hold a contest for a new and simple design...just a scarf maybe.


It just happens that my son too missed his only Convocation. First, the Chemistry Department was unsure of the loyalty of their JEE entrants to their 5-year program and so withheld their B Sc (Hons) Degrees for two full years to be doled out along with their M Sc Degrees (Phy Dept then was more liberal and didn't want unwilling folks in their Dept to stay back and cause nuisance). So, he missed his B Sc (Hons) Degree.


Next, for a long while the Convocation used to be held in December so that the pass-outs who joined their jobs could accumulate some leave and take their Degrees in person. But they found that the PGMs invariably traveled to the US for higher studies in September and so missed the Do. But it never mattered...they got their standing ovation in absentia from their batchmates present. But IIT KGP wanted them to watch and revel it in person, maybe. So, the Convo was preponed to August on the Foundation Day, if possible. So, the ones that got away to the US got their Degrees in person...but the leftovers in India didn't get leave so soon after joining their jobs to clap clap clap...

So, my son was in Hyderbad trying hard to master Java when his turn to climb the stairs of the Holy Dais came and went...


I walked to the Exam Section and collected his two Degrees from the ever-efficient and ever-courteous Tapan-babu...may his tribe increase!

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